Changing your mind should be a source of pride, not shame
We grow up hearing that changing your mind is weakness, that a politician who changes his mind is called an opportunist and a coworker who changes course in the middle of a project is indecisive. Adam Grant turns that logic upside down: in a life where jobs, technology and traffic rules change every few years, the people who get stuck on their first opinion are the ones most at risk of being left behind.
Think of the rideshare driver who learned a new route because of road construction and kept using it even after the old street reopened, because he found out it was faster. He lost nothing by admitting the old route wasn't the best: he saved time every single day.
The book calls this habit rethinking, and argues that it should be treated as a skill you can train, the same way you train a new language or a sport, and not as a rare gift of very smart people.
